Where are you right now? · Step 5: Transplant conversations
Living kidney donation and paired exchange
Who can be a living kidney donor?
HRSA says living donors must be adults in good physical and mental health. They need to know the risks and benefits and choose freely.1
Ask the donor team to assess your health and explain the risks to you.
What is paired kidney exchange?
Paired kidney exchange matches donors with other patients when the donor and the person they want to help do not match.1
Ask the living donor team how an exchange would work.
Can a living kidney donor change their mind?
A donor can decide not to donate at any time.1
Speak with your donor advocate in private if you want to stop.
Who looks out for a living kidney donor during the process?
Who pays for a living kidney donor’s medical costs and other costs?
HRSA says the patient’s insurance generally pays for a donor’s medical costs for the donation.1
The National Living Donor Assistance Center can help eligible donors with travel, lost wages and care for dependents.1
As of October 2026, the new federal rules for this help apply to applications reviewed on or after September 30, 2026.3
Ask for a written list of costs and how to get help with each one.
What help is there for living kidney donors in New York?
New York’s Living Donor Support Program helps eligible donors pay for travel, lost wages, care for dependents and medical costs tied to donation.4
As of October 2026, New York requires applications before donor surgery; a transplant center professional submits the application.4
Ask the donor team to check your residency and other program rules before you spend money.
What follow-up care does a living kidney donor need?
How do I talk with someone about donating a kidney?
HRSA says no one should pressure a person to donate; the choice belongs to the donor.1
Share the HRSA living donation page listed under Sources. Invite them to speak with the donor team on their own. Ask your center for its living donor page.
Living donor pages
- Albany Medical Center Hospital5
- Erie County Medical Center
- Hackensack University Medical Center
- Hartford Hospital
- Long Island Jewish Medical Center-Cohen Children's Medical Center
- Montefiore Medical Center
- Mount Sinai Medical Center6
- NY Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia Univ. Medical Center
- NYU Langone Health
- New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical Center
- North Shore University Hospital/Northwell Health
- Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital
- Saint Barnabas Medical Center (Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center)
- State University of New York Upstate Medical University
- State University of New York, Downstate Medical Center
- Strong Memorial Hospital, University of Rochester Medical Center
- University Hospital of State University of New York at Stony Brook
- Virtua Our Lady of Lourdes Hospital
- Westchester Medical Center
- Yale New Haven Hospital
If your program is not here, ask it for its donor team’s page.
Questions to bring to your team
- Who is my donor advocate?
- What risks apply to me?
- How can I stop the process in private?
- Who pays for each test and visit?
- Can I apply for help before surgery?
- Where will I get follow-up care?
Sources
- HRSA / OPTN. Living Donation FAQs. Can I be a living donor? Do I have to know the person to whom I donate an organ? What if I want to donate my kidney to a specific person but we do not match? Who decides if I may donate? Will someone at the transplant hospital help me with the process? Who pays the costs if I decide to donate? Will I need follow-up medical care after I donate? Only you can decide whether living donation is right for you. Checked October 30, 2026.
- HRSA / OPTN. OPTN Policies Effective as of October 1, 2026. Policies 14.2.A, 14.3 and 18.4; printed pages 285–286 and 333. Checked October 30, 2026.
- Federal Register / HRSA. Modification of Living Organ Donation Reimbursement Program Eligibility Guidelines in Response To Honor Our Living Donors Act. Section XI, printed page 61421. Checked October 30, 2026.
- New York State Department of Health. Living Donor Support Program Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs). Question 6. Questions 10 and 13. Checked October 30, 2026.
- Albany Medical Center Hospital. Kidney Transplant. Living Kidney Donor Information. Checked October 30, 2026.
- Mount Sinai Medical Center. Living Donor Transplantation. H1. Checked October 30, 2026.
Page facts
Written by the TransplantCheck team.
Facts checked against official sources on October 30, 2026.
Changes
- October 30, 2026: first version.
- November 2, 2026: moved here, under step 5.